Smashing the Limits #ToughIs @Brawny

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I remember it like it was yesterday.  I was going into the seventh grade and had to get a physical, so we visited our pediatrician.  I wanted to join the track team, so while we were in the doctor’s office, I asked him what he thought.  He was an older gentleman, and very kind.  He sadly shook his head and said, “Oh, no, you cannot run on track team.  You no sweat.”

As we drove home, Mom looked over at me and said, “I know you’re disappointed…”  I stopped her and said, “I’m joining the track team.”  She glanced at the road, then glanced at me.  “You heard the doctor.”  I shrugged my shoulders and responded, “You’ve always said I had to set my own limits, and not let anyone else set them for me.”  Mom nodded her head and said okay.  I will never forget the look on her face in that moment.  On the one hand, I know she was proud of me, because I finally reached a point in my life where I knew what it meant to set my own limits and not let others dictate to me what I could or could not due based on my differences.  On the other hand, I know she was scared witless.

Set Your Own Limits

As you know, I am affected by Hay Wells Syndrome, one of the ectodermal dysplasia.  One of the characteristics of Hay Wells Syndrome is hypohidrosis, or diminished sweating.  At the I didn’t sweat at all.  Of course, sweating is the body’s cooling system.  Just as a car can overheat and breakdown if the cooling system is dysfunctional, the inability to sweat normally can cause overheating, which can lead to heat stroke—which could be potentially fatal.

I joined the track team that year.  In fact, in addition to running hurdles, throwing discuss, and launching the shotput, I trained to run the mile as an alternate, meaning I didn’t have to run it at every track meet.  One track meet rolled around and the girl who normally ran the mile for our team had an injury.  The coach looked at me and said, “You’re in.”  I sprinted to the sideline and told my Mom, who looked like she was probably choking back tears.  I didn’t win the mile race.  In fact, I didn’t place.  If memory serves me correctly, I may have even been the last person to cross the line.  I did get overheated.  My teammates poured water on me to help me cool down.

Tough Is Setting Your Own Limits and then Smashing the Limits You Set

It couldn’t have been easy for my Mom to stand on the sidelines that night, with her own words reverberating in her head and the knowledge of what COULD happen if I overheated chasing them.  Knowing that she was the one that taught me to set my own limits, and not allow others to set them for me.  That track season I realized that I am not defined by what others think of me, and I am refuse to allow others to determine what I am capable of. I learned that being tough is setting your own limits, and then smashing the limits you set.

I started sweating minimally when I was 21.  I had a sweat test a few years ago, and according to it, I sweat less than 15% of “typical.”  I never have been your average gal.   As you know, I’ve recently been training for a 10K (which is tomorrow) and a 15K (which is in December).  Race training, or running for that matter, when you don’t sweat properly can be challenging, to say the least.  But, it’s not impossible.  I’ve learned to compensate for my inability to sweat properly.  I make sure I have plenty of water with me.  I keep a wet cloth or mister bottle with me on hot days or long runs, and use it to mimic the evaporative cooling process of sweat.  I’ve run the 10K trail twice now.  Today I set a personal record and ran 5K in 37:18

12 minute mile

There are plenty of times when I’m running– far more than I care to admit– that my mind starts telling me I can’t run another step.  I’m too hot, too tired, too sore, too whatever.  Then I remind myself that I set my own limit, and then smash it.

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Disclosure: This is a compensated campaign that I am participating in with Brawny. All opinions are my own and do not reflect those of the brand.

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14 Comments

  1. Stephanie

    What an inspiring post! It is important for us to set our own limits and go by those and not those of others.

  2. You are one tough cookie. I have no physical limitations and I cannot even run a mile. You go girl!

  3. Very inspiring. Keep it up. You are a true inspiration. Thank you for sharing.

  4. What an inspiration you are! It’s great to know that you can go beyond limitations. I appreciate that you are doing it responsibily by making the necessary accommodations. Can’t wait to see what barrier you break next!

  5. rachel young

    How inspiring!! Great story and I’m always trying to push my kids to go for their goals

  6. That is awesome that at such a young age you had such determination and courage. Good luck in your next race and keep smashing those limits!

  7. Oh, Virginia, I love this! So inspiring – you definitely are tough!

  8. Incredibly inspiring but so very true. We set our own limits for ourselves and when we let others define those limits sometimes it just doesn’t work for us. Step out of the comfort zone and achieve what the heart and mind want.

  9. You rock! I love that you decided for yourself (and still do) what you can and can’t do.

  10. That is a truly inspiring story! You are a tough cookie and an amazing lady!

  11. Oof! This was such a timely read for me and really inspiring. My daughter is at an age, where she is learning to set and then test and redefine her own limits, all the time. It’s hard to sit by and watch because there isn’t a lot this kid won’t try. So often I want to reach out and just pull her back a little bit, but by doing so, I hold her back. Every once in a while though, there’s something she doesn’t think she can do, and she’s let others tell her she can’t . . .so I”m going to have her read this, and then reconsider whether she wants to limit herself or not. I’ll try and not limit her by being the nervous Nellie I always am!

  12. What an incredible post. I admire your strength, determination and courage. I wish you the best of luck on your upcoming races – please let us know how you do. We’ll be rooting for you at home!!

  13. Linda Manns Linneman

    You really inspire me. I am proud of you for standing up and doing what you know you can handle. Thank you for sharing this article. Also thank you for sharing Brawny. I like these paper towels also. They are tough just like you

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